CREATE THE WINS. STACK THE WINS
When you invest in your culture and in your team and when you build processes that help you go above and beyond for your customers and fans, people will notice and there will be wins. Your products will get mentioned more often. They will be used more often. They will be visible more often. They will be sold more often. And they will be shared and reviewed more often. You create mass. You create gravity.
I like to think about this phase of growth like a dance party. It’s hard to get it all started but once it’s going, it builds its own momentum. No one wants to be the first one out on the dance floor — all alone with all eyes on them. And as hard as that is, being the second one out there is even harder. (The first one is always drunk or crazy. It’s the second one who’s really going out on a limb vouching for it.)
But the minute the third person hits the floor, then it’s safe enough for everyone else to hop on and that party keeps going until the needle skips or until the DJ misreads the room and throws on a dud. Business and branding are exactly the same. One win begets two more wins. Two wins beget four. Four should beget more but by that point in time someone on the team usually throws a wrench into your game. Try very hard to avoid doing that for as long as possible. You don’t get too many chances to keep the party going.
AMPLIFY THE WINS INTO THE VOID
Now here’s the best part. Just because it feels like you’re winning in your echo chamber and just because you’ve built a bit of momentum, it’s easy to go back to myth making and to believing that anyone cares at all or that you’ve made an impact. You haven’t. You are still right back where you started from. There is just simply too much noise and distraction to compete with.
There is always something new and shiny. Always someone doing what you do cheaper. Or better. And there are still an infinite amount of people who have no idea who you are, what you do, or who simply do not care. Your job is to not be discouraged by that fact. And you have to remind yourself to not believe your own hype or to think that what you’ve already accomplished has mattered at all. And you must find the grace and humility in this because you are going to have to keep doing this over and over again.
And you are going to need to remind your internal team and bosses that no one cares an equal number of times. That’s the job and you can’t be discouraged by that. Because if those simple facts get you down, you’ll never have the fortitude to do what comes next. And this is the part that really matters.
As you are growing your brand and reaching out to build new opportunities and to bank new wins, most people will not get back to you. And when I say most, I mean (almost) no one will get back to you. Which is normal. You can’t take that personally. But every time that you have a win worth sharing, make it a point to circle back and to simply keep them in the loop.
It doesn’t matter that they’ve never responded to you. Just keep having an ongoing one-sided conversation with that open email thread. Don’t hound them. Don’t spam them. Just simply keep amplifying your wins and moving all your checker pieces forward. Some might even say that I simply create wins in order to amplify them.
Do this on all platforms at all levels and throughout your organisation and eventually — over time, over years — and you will eventually turn the impossible into reality. And when you do that enough times and when you’ve created the culture and platform and process for others to adopt your shared beliefs and shared wins as if they are their own, you will look back and realise that what felt like yelling into the void without a megaphone was actually orchestrating the coordinated efforts of countless friends and strangers moving pebbles and boulders from point A to point B.
Mike Dias writes and speaks about Why Nobody Likes Networking and What Entertainers Can Teach Executives. He is one of the few global leaders in Trade Show Networking and he helps companies maximise their trade show spend by ensuring that their teams are prepared, ready, and able to create and close opportunities. This column will be an ongoing monthly feature because Mike loves talking shop and is honoured to give back to the community. If this article was helpful and useful in any way, please reach out anytime at Mike Dias Speaks and let Mike know about what you want to hear more about next time.